Consider this a Grand Inquisitor-style thought experiment. Most baptized Catholics are to one degree or another Kasperite heretics, and I’m quite sure that I’ve often spotted this spirit just beneath their surface. Whoever is running the American annulment factory is much more guilty of this type of thinking than Kasper himself. The arguments that Catholic practice should depart from Catholic doctrine always seem phony. What do they really believe?
Life is just a jumble of one thing after another, and none of it really means anything because it all ends in oblivion anyway. Each of us will die, and yet we will each die alone, because my personal extinction is an incommunicable catastrophe. There is no God, and the universe doesn’t care how you spend the time between now and your final destination. And yet to make the swift years of life bearable, we must imagine that what we do matters in some ultimate sense. We must feel as if we are really connected to other people by unbreakable bonds. Otherwise, the fear and loneliness and despair would be too much. So we need our vows, our promises of fidelity unto death, those grand gestures of throwing away our lives for love like Jesus did.
And yet, this is playing with fire. “For better or for worse” means the possibility of having to accept great suffering and loneliness, the very things that vow was supposed to prevent. What shall we do? Is not the play-acting of children healthy, perhaps even necessary? And yet, when the rules of a game or a dare lead to actual danger, is that not the time to remember that the game is in fact a game, and that they would be better off playing a different one? Again, what shall we do? Shall we devise new marriage vows with explicit exception clauses, new rules that keep things from ever getting really out of hand? Heavens no! This would defeat the point of the game, which must be played as if it were serious to have its effect. The point of marriage is to feel that you are indissolubly bound to another person, that she/he is totally yours, and you are totally hers/his, even though it’s not true. People in love always promise “forever”; it would be as cruel to keep them from promising this as it would be to actually hold them to it.
No, the game must continue to be played, because outside of it is darkness and despair. We must play with fire. But it must be play. What is needed is a class of discreet and wise “grown-ups” to keep things from getting out of hand. The point of marriage is the comfort of personal companionship. The point of the Eucharist is the comfort of community affirmation. We must see to it that these sacraments are really offering these things to everyone. And yet, for them to work. they must maintain the illusion of transcendent purpose and absolute validity. We must affirm the rules, and we must break them.
Eventually, we will not be satisfied with communion for the remarried. We will insist that the Church recognize second unions. We will not criticize indissolubility–oh no! Let a woman enjoy the comforting glow of vowed-fidelity-unto-death with her husband. And if that doesn’t work out, let her then enjoy it with her second husband. And then with her third. It doesn’t matter if these feelings don’t make sense in some absolute sense if the comfort is real. Many of the Church’s other moral teachings will have to be practically neutered as well. However, this is not something the Church is ready to hear yet.
The reasons we give for our policies are, of course, illogical. They must be, because we can’t give our true reasons without breaking illusions we wish to see maintained. The integralists say we are a new crop of modernists, but this is not quite right. The original modernists were interested in theology. They wanted to reinterpret Catholic dogma in an immanentist sense, as “expressions of religious consciousness” or suchlike. We have no interest in such speculative matters. It is all the same to us if the laity believe in Apostolic Succession or Transubstantiation or other such nonsense. We are only interested in the practical functioning of the psychological-sacramental system. We only ask to be allowed to interrupt the game here and there so that most people can go on playing without trouble. If we must blather on about being “merciful” and “pastoral” based on no principle to be consistently applied, we are certainly willing to do so to achieve our goal.
Some would accuse us of undermining the faith, but if the laity had any faith to undermine they would spurn us. Instead we are immensely popular. The people want what we’re giving. Deep down, they know that marriage and religion are just play-acting. They just want the play to be kept pleasant. They do not share that barbarous obsession of the fundamentalists, the integralists, and the new atheists over issues of truth. Are you surprised that I group these three things together? You shouldn’t be. What separates us from the atheists is their residual sense of reverence, their impression that the ideas of God, sacrament, and marriage are too holy to be trifled with even if they don’t correspond to anything real. Most of us, though, are civilized enough to take a more practical view.
Who wouldn’t want religion as we sell it, all comfort and no judgement? We take away pitiless rules and troubling truths. We take away the Cross.
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